Hi, I’m
Weston

After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…”

The secret isn’t how you’ll die or when you’ll die. The secret to death, is what happens next…

Learn the process of what happens when you die.  What is the Tunnel of Light? Is there a judgement day? How does a life review work?  How can I communicated with with spiritual world?

What’s it like to die?  What happens when you die can be tremendously helpful in eliminating all the fears associated with death and dying. 

BE WARNED, watching this video or listeing to this podcast can be life alterning.

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Episode 079 of True Connections with Weston Jolly

Transcription: I’m Dead Now What?

Immediately upon leaving your body your spirit returns to its natural form. It’s something that you can absolutely feel. I remember vividly holding our dog who was about to be given a lethal does of Sodium Pentobarbital compassionately because of his health problems. I had my left hand was on his collar and my right hand on chest as the Veterinarian administered the shot. Almost immediately, I could feel our pet’s heart stop concurrent with his breathing. A long two seconds later, I felt something infinitesimal light – much much lighter than any feather could ever be – leave his body. It was incredible. As I felt his spirit lift all I could do was cry.

I wasn’t crying because of fear or even the loss, but the beauty of the spirit leaving the body of our family pet to return to Source. It was incredible.

When someone dies, they first enter into a space, you can also call it a place if helps you at first to understand, but it is really a space… a space where transition begins. At the exact moment of death there’s a transition. The transition is obvious as there’s no longer a need for a beating heart, breathing, eating or thinking.

This portal, which is the same one I mentioned in Ep 78 of True Connections with Weston Jolly called I Talk To Dead People. If you haven’t listened or read that podcast, when you are born, and when you die, there’s a portal. This portal is entry in coming back to the light.

When your mother was fully dilated, her body opened to give space for her to give you birth. During this exact time, which is called “The Transition Phase,” your mom’s body involuntarily started to push you, as her baby, into the light.

This is the same portal for birth as it is death. Obviously, you don’t return to your mother’s womb upon death, but you are returned to Source which is the Mother Of Us All. So in one sense you are returned to the Divine Mother. The mother of Source. This space, or portal, is the same in the beginning as it is in the end.

This too is why Source has accurately stated, that “I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end.”

In childbirth, it’s obviously called the transition phase because your mother is transitioning from one place to the next. The transition from life to death is the same frequency as when you were born. It’s the same doorway or portal or opening in which life starts or in which life ends.

Another way of conceiving this concept, pun intended, is for you to picture a rocket about to liftoff. As a rocket thrust’s itself away from Earth’s gravity -about two minutes after the launch- there is a transition. This is the place where the thrusters give way to the new smaller capsule inside the mothership. During transition, and for the first time, this smaller capsule begins its journey under its own power.

Regardless of how death occurs, the soul is instantly returned via the transition phase back to Source. The very first thing that is addressed is identity. When there’s been a sudden death there is some strong likelihood that the soul still holds the thought resonance that they are still embodied. They’re not, as this is why people who have died and come back into their body, say that they were disembodied or that they were out-of-body.

What’s it like to be out of your body? Pretty much the same as when you dream. Certainly, you can remain, heavy, or in your body while you dream. But most of us leave our body during the dream state. This is why I’ve shared two important blogs for you to consider on the subject of dreaming; What is the Spiritual Meaning of Your Dreams and more importantly Are Flying Dreams Real?. You could describe being out-of-your-body as flying, but it’s more accurate to say, that you’ve returned to your spiritual essence.

After realizing that you are no longer alive, or physically embodied, the transition continues. This is where you find yourself aware that you’re in what many have called a “tunnel of light.” This tunnel, is much like riding in a vehicle goes through a hole at the bottom of a mountain to come out the other side. During the transition period of death, this tunnel of light has an emmence light that draws you towards it. I guess you could say the tunnel of light is also like a long hallway, with countless doors that connect to events within your life span.

The tunnel of light also has similarities to your human umbilical cord. The tunnel of light umbilical cord tethers you to every part of the life that you experienced. I guess you could say the length of the tunnel of light would equate to the length of your life, although time doesn’t exist. Immediately after death, and after the understanding that you’re no longer alive, then you begin what’s called a life review.

Because of world religious influence or conditioning, there are ideas that a life review is some sort of judgement. There is absolutely no judgement. There is no judgement day. And if you’re really listening, that means there is no judgement while you’re alive or when you die. This is even logically reasoned, as Source, which is THE author of Unconditional Love there can be no judgement. Ever.

If you’ve been baptized into this thinking, pun intended, then this too is part of your reawakening to return to your true spiritual essence. In your life review, as seen within the tunnel of light, you begin experiencing your life, every millisecond of it, from the perception of those that were around you.

Your life review is the most complete, inventory of your experiences ever created. Ultimately, all of “your” experiences are no longer stored in your body or brain, but in the Akashic records. The Akashic records is where all things are stored. Notice, I didn’t say all things of life are stored but ALL things. The Akashic records is also a place where all spiritual things are stored too.

If it helps, in this moment, think of the Akashic records as the biggest library every conceived. Every experience, memory, thought, creation, manifesting, happiness, joy or sadness and separation is all stored here in the Akashic records. Most important, after death you begin to process your life experiences through this life review. Before we get any farther down the path of what happens next after you die. I should back track just a little to say that you’re often greeted upon death by others who are familiar to you.

This can be a deceased; father, mother, brother, friend or spouse –and it very much includes specific Angels or Spiritual Guides – even if you’ve never believed or embraced them to be real before. Also, since we’re here at the time of physical death, it’s quite common to have people that have “agreed” to support you as you leave your body. This can be; a spouse, brother, sister, father, mother or friend. And this group of physical people helping you transition can very much include the health care workers who may be assisting you -should that be the case.

After you start the process of letting go of your identity, your body and your physical self, you start the life review of enjoying how every person, and every thing, recorded your life interaction. This life review is the most comprehensive thing you can possibly imagine. This review isn’t necessarily time sequential from the beginning to the end or from the end to the beginning. The life review is very much related to the being in the tunnel of light and where you find yourself in the tunnel.

Since time isn’t real, especially from a spiritual perspective, when going through a life review there is no “normal time” in which someone reviews their life completely. There’s no need to hurry or get through it quickly. This is the perfect time to share about when you can have access to someone after they’ve died.

Sometimes, there’s an immediate need for someone who has passed to communicate with you. By far the simplest means for the two parties to connect is via the dream state. This place can act like a bridge to the physical reality and the the spiritual. If someone you know has passed and they need, or you need, to communicate you will have a dream. Dreams can feel wonderful, offering you and the person who died, a state of completion after death.

When death suddenly occurs the drastic change of being alive one minute and dead the next can be a challenge that death has occurred. If you compare this to someone who has faced a life long illness, or condition, death in itself can be a relief. Nonetheless, any and all resistance is futile. Even when death is overdue or long past expected, the need to connect can be important for both sides to tie up any part or pieces of the relationship that are still being processed. This is where a lot of people will ask questions such as, “Why did they have to die early?” or “Why did they take so long to let go?

When people do let go of their bodies there is no pain. The only thing that can be processed as painful is memories of the past. While this is NOT encouraged, it is possible for someone who has passed to get stuck in the tunnel of light. This would very much include individuals of addiction in their physical life. This only means that the person who died, who was once was an addict – it doesn’t matter the kind of addiction – that they can do circles around the same spot within the tunnel of light. This is akin to watching a rerun of some episodic TV that has been seen a thousand times before but the deceased person hasn’t let it go.

From an earthly perspective, when someone is stuck we call these kinds of entities –ghosts. A ghost being an entity that’s spiritual but still stuck in their Earthly attachment. Entities or ghosts, are sometimes stuck in a house, the bar, the city or place, where they are still doing circles in their death transition to pure light. And yes, sometimes these entities play tricks or try to create a dominion of their presence because of certain pieces of their physical past.

To understand this better let me share this real life example. My family and I stayed in a Bed and Breakfast in Denver many years ago. When we fist checked-in, I could feel the energy of entities, or ghosts that were running around the large house. We had two rooms. One for my wife and I, and the other for our kids with an adjoining door in between the two rooms. Once we got up into our rooms, I went to say something about what I felt in the house to to my wife and kids… and everyone looked at me and said, “We know!”

We could all feel the spiritual entities that were attached to the house and the rooms we’d rented for the night. We gathered as one, and spiritually demanded that we would have privacy in our rooms. This was agreed upon by the entities of the house, but as a part of the spiritual negotiation, our whole family also agreed that the ghosts would be allowed to run up and down the stairways or halls including the kitchen area. All in all, we came to an agreement.

We stayed the one night. Our family wasn’t bothered, as per our understanding, but the conversation that we had with the new owners the following day at breakfast was quite interesting. The owner’s of the B&B shared the details of the troubles they had after purchasing the property and also trying to convert it into a B&B. We appreciated the spiritual education and determined that, as a family, we preferred properties that weren’t inhabited by ghosts.

The best way to describe this is that these souls were still attached to the concept that they lived or inhabited the house and therefore they were stuck in an endless loop in the tunnel of light. In time, though spiritual encouragement, these entities will let go, and they will ascend further into the white light.

Places where I observe entities who are stuck most are in; hospitals, bars, houses, and sometimes cities or specific events. I have helped many homeowner’s, releasing stuck energy, or entities that were attached to the house, so they could sell the property. So, now in getting back to, I’m Dead Now What?

When a person who is ready to communicate to someone who is physically on Earth they may create reminders or patterns of signals to prompt the living person to initiate communication. This where a spiritual medium, such as myself, acts as a liaison in assisting. I think it’s important as a spiritual channel to share with you, that when I am asked to bridge the two parties together much can take place. For me, I become a spiritual interpreter to give words and language and energy meaning the dead person I am channeling.

Oftentimes, a person that has passed wants to provide specific information to my client as means of sharing that this communication and/or this bridge is authentic. This means the dead are often dropping direct or even indirect references to events, names and situations to enhance the conversation. There is conflict for the person that’s passed because they’re being asked to remove their attachment to their physical identity, and now have to use it, like a badge used to enter a building, to once again have access the person they want to speak to.

In time, being detached is easier and easier because the deceased can use their previous identity, name, association with whomever they’re talking to, and no longer be attached to it. A careful observer will see this during the course of their spiritual transition down the tunnel of light.

I would like to add a few more things to our speaking about I’m Dead Now What?

On the spiritual side there can be a challenge to have direct communication with the ones they love. Dropping clues in dreams, making the phone ring with no one on the line, is wonderful but not nearly fulfilling enough. Oftentimes, I have participated as a medium for one specific person who died, and many many others show up. I would have you imagine, that there is a telephone line that is opened up, as the result of the channeling and many times there is a line of entities who want to talk, have a comment, say “hi” and more.

It’s been my experience that this can be a little overwhelming for me as I’m suddenly trying to hear, see and feel a whole group of people instead of just channeling for one individual who has passed. Therefore, I ask all those in the spiritual form to stand in line, and if my client is desirous, I’ll give them a chance to speak. This is fun to know that there’s so much demand for the deceased to speak and share.

Lastly, those who pass, sometimes begrudgingly come to the table when asked as opposed to those that would jump at the chance. This is because they’re still very much in process of their life review, regardless of how long ago they died. When this is the case, I think it’s important to share their hesitancy and also let it be known that the deceased loved one is still clinging to their identity which very much includes their personality. Such an entity can be helped by having such a dialgog even though it might initially feel a little forced.

In summary of I’m Dead Now What? I think it’s fair to share that the dead want to be heard as much as you may want to communicate with them –perhaps even more so. Further understanding with someone who has passed can be very healing. This is especially true, when a “personality” is altered and the person that you once knew takes on a truer form of their spiritually. This is where you can be really assisted beyond the physical, when a person who has passed offers themselves as a spiritual guide .

So in conclusion, and in this moment, I’d like to offer a special honor and gratitude for Suzie, who was my sister-in-law who died prematurely at the age of 37. I really just want to truly thank her for or all of her love and personal assistance for me, her sister and her niece and nephew. Suzie, was a very strong personality while living, having modeled, creating several successful business’ and while also quite challenged with unresolved things of her childhood that caused her premature death from this life. That said, I’d like to dedicate this whole podcast to Suzie and her beautiful life.

Suzie continues to offer each member of our family a great deal of spiritual encouragement and direction and remains a active part of our lives. Some time ago, I wrote a special piece I dedicated to Suzie which is called A Beautiful Life. should you be interested in hearing more about her life and impact….

I do hope you can see that speaking to the dead is truly something to be cherished and honored and in that respect I remain endeared to be called to that process every time I’m asked to channel. Thank you for joining me for today’s podcast and I’ll look forward to your joining me again soon for the next True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast!

 

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